LOVE..... and pinch of salt !!!

"jab hum iss duniya me aate hai, to uparwala humhe sub se milata hai...!maa baap bhai bahen, bus ek chehra vo hum se chupae rakta hai, jis se humhe ek din pyar ho jata hai...!!!"
(all bull shit...!)
when we land on earth god provide us all the need full(mother,father..) thing but later humans discover all useless things i.e girl frn/boy frn, this self destructive tendency is called human nature.
Through this article let's analyse the process of secretion of certain hormones in human body, by the way fools termed it as LOVE .

So what is Love..???

-> in karan johar's view love is the most beautiful thing in the world and "hum ek baar jeethe hai, ek baar marthe hai...bla bla bla ... pyar bhi ek hi baar hota hai...!"(then why the hell srk had 2 marriage in that movie.)

->where as sanjay leelabhansali called mental sickness of Devdas as LOVE.(Devdas didn't need paro or alchohol, all he needed was a psychiatrist)

->as per puja bhatt "yhe jism pyar nahi janta, janta hai sirf bhook... jism ki bhook...!!!".

Though all these movies did well but i appreciate pooja's point of view as it's closer to the practical/scientific principle where as other's view are more of a philosophical , which is good for listening but are far away from reality.

After watching movies like krish we ask children not to imitate stunt and make them believe that it can happen only in movies not in practical life, but we as an adult forget that it's just a movie and things like love can happen in movies only. Whether one admit it or not
every one want to see himself/herself as Raj/Simran and every coll going guys want father
like anupam kher who gives beer to his son and tell him "jaa beta jaa... ab meri jawani jee
kar aa...!!!"but in reality all we want is safe future i.e monetary safety as most of people spend 85% of their life in earning money.

They say money can't buy love...?
Can anyone think of katrina kaif getting married to a middle class guy just because she loves him,can a s/w engineer get marry to her...? if your ans is yes then please forward my ph no to katrina kaif. If u think good looks is most important for attracting woman for long relationship thinkagain as katrina kaif is not linked with any model (madonna's case is exception ). Alright let me put it in this way , what will attract women more...?, a good looking guy having six pack n all... or a average looking guy getting down frm Lamborghini...?any one can notice siddharth mallya's friendship with deepika or katrina ...! (i am not jealous ) I just wanna highlight that for him selecting love is as easy as windows user interface, he just need to pick(click) a girl. While selecting a guy for their daughter parents first consider the financial condition followed by mental and physical condition of boy (social reputation n family comes somewhere in between).

How can love be blind when so many factors are involved in it and by the way blind dating concept is not popular in India, people didn't understand the true sense of love being blind i.e. for love u don't have to look any thing, just weigh how much a guy worth...!. In case of girls beauty can precede money factor.

In ancient times poets use to write aiming towards spreading knowledge in society, their were literature on love but it was not the prime focus for most of them, imagine rahim das writing romantic poems, later came the period of patriotism when writer use to motivate people through their write ups, then came a point where writer didn't find any substantial thing in society they started writing more about human's feeling therefore gave different funda about love.
Movies followed the similar path, earlier hero use 2 be the poor man struggling for food n his mother's disease, then hero struggled with corruption in society, then hero started visiting Europe and now hero is just a common man, in all this journey sub plot of love remain common.

If movies like burning trains would have been super hit then the shape of bollywood would be different, their would be lot of action movies like die hard rather than love stories, someone like sanjay dutt would be the owner of mannat rather than srk. Now days most of the movies are on love not because all these people believe in love but just because you don't need big budget for making love stories.The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them: there ought to be as many for love as well.
Now lets look love as a case study but before that we all should know few things about human nature.
->one tends to develop attachment with any and everything with which he/she spend time with,it can be anything could be their pet for some or mobiles,bikes or for instance
girl/boy for others.
->we follow fashion from movies i.e. style,dress up etc, according to a survey byk sales were increased after DHOOM, similarly when we c hero heroine involved in love stories we want/intend to be involved or have some love story, as we all wanna be like Srk/kajol but we forget that they are not like this in real life.
->when everyone around you has boyfriend/girlfriend, who send chocolate or flower to them, you also feel like "kash koi hota jisko hum apna keha lathe yaroo...!"
->it's cool to have hot chick to make ur frns jealous.
->stag entries are not allowed in disc,so what u'll do on valentine day as their is big hue
n cry about it, now days......shiv sainiks are not doing their job properly.
now lets dive into the case in which people fall in relation ship.

case 1: girl n boy know each other from their childhood,as i have already explained we start liking things if we be/use them for long time,if u eat karele ki sabzi for few month regularly u'll start liking it. when u can become habitual of bitter taste in few months then becoming habitual of some one in many years is obvious, no matter hw he's in taste bitter,sour,sweet u just develop an attachment with the person n since u heard,read,seen love all around u , u conclude that u r in love.

case 2:boy n girl are in same college...!. When a person enter into college he/she has some sort of expectation about his/her college life n mostly they associate it with fun and enjoyments.as we know opposite attracts each other and in events like freshers party n all students find perfect opportunity to mingle with each other, for most of them this is new feeling so they tends to flow with it. We can find some popular couples in every batch of every college, these couples tend 2 move away from their frn n extreme stage is of living together.

case 3:boy chase a girl for sometime n finally his hard work payoff, the point here 2 b noted is when a guy chase a girl he loves that girl's look as he don't know how that girl really is as a person and then they meet and fall into relationship, they lookup to each other as a better half and have already spend most of his/her time with each other. When u get something after working hard for it, it's more close 2 ur heart.

case 4:boy meet girl and mutually they form a relationship, as it's uncool to be single, mostly this case happens in later stage of college or life, when one don't have anyone as bf/gf and want to have someone whom he/she can claim boy frn or girl frn. Sometimes it's just to show himself or frn that even i have girl frn/boy frn.

I am not against d feeling of love , love is just a part of life not heart of life. Their are many forms of love, all u ashiq should ask yourself that how many times they have done something special to make ur mother happy. We generally tends to take people for granted who loves us unconditionally n in other case people misunderstand infatuation as love n no one can understand love who has not experienced infatuation. And no one can understand infatuation, no matter how many times he has experienced it.

SO why the hell people need love....? A baby is born with a need to be loved and never outgrows it. People love because they are afraid of themselves, afraid of the loneliness that lives in them, and need someone in whom they can lose themselves as smoke loses itself in the sky. In childhood parents and frnds can play that role but later it's becomes difficult 2 fill that space.

Life is a journey, so u need to change train for reaching new destination,don't love one
train only.

Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence,it's a trick played on people to achieve continuation of the species(how ?........in next article).

tujhe to hai dhoka, agar tujhe hai pyar,
love ka yhe Jalwa, kuch nahi hai pyar,
yhe hai Emotional Attyachaar...!!!

pour in guys with your invaluable comments and express your view on LOVE..!!!